by Laura Hedgecock | Memories, Family History, Storytelling, Writing Advice, Writing and Sharing Memories
Do beauty and family stories go together? Should they? Do we want to leave the equivalent of a photograph in which we’ve pasted an insincere smile on our faces? Most of us want to present ourselves in a positive light. Maybe not quite perfect, but normal. We...
by Laura Hedgecock | Memories, Family History, How-to, Writing and Sharing Memories
Culture Clashes. They happen among nations, ethnic groups, and generations. Sadly, culture clashes also occur among families. Heritages or upbringings collide. Differing values splinter relationships. Personal memory collectors, memoirists, and family storytellers all...
by Laura Hedgecock | Family History, How-to, Writing Advice, Writing and Sharing Memories
Understanding the fears our ancestors faced can help us understand their lives. That, in turn, can help us tell their stories. Although it’s hard to know from the meager records we unearth whether an ancestor was an introvert or adventurer, we can form some theories...
by Laura Hedgecock | Family History, How-to, Journal writing, Memories, Writing and Sharing Memories
Until last weekend, I had forgotten how poignant reunions can be. Whether it’s family, school, or something else, reunions allow you to reconnect with the past. Not only are they great places to re-color some of those faded memories, they refresh the soul. Reunions,...
by Laura Hedgecock | Memories, Family History, Journal writing, Storytelling, Writing Advice, Writing and Sharing Memories
Last week, a friend showed me how to look for silver linings. The news is often disturbing, but in the last couple of weeks the horrors that some people will inflict on others makes me want to run and hide. Only I don’t know where I’d go. The Brandon Vandenburg and...
by Laura Hedgecock | Memories, Family History, How-to, Writing Advice, Writing and Sharing Memories
How do you deal with the elusiveness of truth and accuracy in memories and family stories? Truth versus Accuracy Let’s first look at how truth and accuracy can differ. I have two friends, Ann and Sandy. (Actually I have more, but my point is only relevant to two of...